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Saturday, 3 September 2022

Choice

   

  Twenty-third Sunday in Ordinary Time

04 September 2022 

 
First Reading: Wis 9:13-18b
Responsorial Psalm: Ps 90:3-4, 5-6, 12-13, 14 and 17
Second Reading: Phmn 9-10, 12-17
Gospel: Lk 14:25-33
 
Reflection
By: Grace Madrinan
 
I would be completely lying if I said that I am not taken aback by the Gospel for today especially when I read the first part. "If anyone comes to me without hating his father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters, and even his own life, he cannot be my disciple." I love my family, why would I hate them?

Then I realized that I should not take this to context and focus on the message. Good thing is, the succeeding verses make it clearer, "In the same way, anyone of you who does not renounce all his possessions cannot be my disciple (Luke 14:33)."

God does not say to hate our family. In fact, He said, "Honour your father and your mother, so that you may live long in the land the LORD your God is giving you (Exodus 20:12)." But if your family is preventing you from doing the right thing, or worst, forcing you to do wrong, then we must choose to follow God.

Did God say renounce all possessions!? At first, it felt as if God was asking us to sell our possessions and live with the poor. But I believe He meant to ask for our loyalty and undivided attention. We must choose God over everything. And we can start with small things. Do we choose to pray before we open our mobile phones in the morning? Do we choose to go to Mass before we go to the mall? Or did we miss Mass because we binge watched on Netflix the night before?

Who says following God is easy? In a world full of distractions, following God requires mindfulness to constantly do the right thing. But like any other relationship, we are given the choice. I hope at the end of the day, we choose to follow God.

"Master, to whom shall we go? You have the words of eternal life. We have come to believe and are convinced that You are the Holy One of God." - John 6:68-69

Prayer

Father God, forgive us for our shortcomings. We are usually distracted by fleeting things. Teach us to constantly look up to You and choose to follow You all the days of our lives. In Jesus' Name, we pray. Amen.


Friday, 16 July 2021

Rest

Sixteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time
18 July 2021 
 
First Reading: JER 23:1-6
Responsorial Psalm: PS 23:1-3, 3-4, 5, 6
Second Reading: EPH 2:13-18
Gospel: MK 6:30-34
 
Reflection
By: Grace Madrinan
 
"Come away by yourselves to a deserted place and rest a while". - Mark 6:31

This verse struck me the most in today's Gospel. I have been guilty of overworking for the past few days that I felt irritable and almost in a tantrum. And the verse reminded what I needed the most...rest.

But if you read the verse more closely, there are other keywords to describe the rest required. It says "by yourselves" which reads alone. "To a deserted place" which means away from the world's distractions - work, mobile phones, netflix.

Almost immediately, when rest is suggested, people will suggest going to an out of town trip, climb a mountain or take a swim elsewhere. I know because I would love to take that rest somewhere else given this pandemic. But reflecting on the passage today, deep in my heart I know it calls me to a different rest.

"When was the last time that you pray? That kind of prayer where you lose track of time, the kind of prayer that moves you to tears and lulls you to sleep..."


I heard this question in my mind and felt that tug in my heart. It's true. My prayers lately, if not hurried, is limited to the rosary or Divine Mercy. I needed to find my rest again in a deep prayer.

"Early in the morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up, left the house and went off to a solitary place, where He prayed." - Mark 1:35

Even Jesus, our Lord, took time to pray. I should, too.

Prayer
 
Father, I was too caught up with this world that I forget to rest and pray. Forgive me. Teach me how to pray as Jesus did that I may fully recover and find rest in You. Amen.

 

 

Tuesday, 25 June 2013

Distractions

Thirteenth Sunday in
Ordinary Time
June 30, 2013

First Reading: First Kings 19:16-21

Then you shall anoint Jehu, son of Nimshi, as king of Israel, and Elisha, son of Shaphat of Abel-meholah, as prophet to succeed you. If anyone escapes the sword of Hazael, Jehu will kill him. If he escapes the sword of Jehu, Elisha will kill him. Yet I will leave seven thousand men in Israel--all those who have not knelt to Baal or kissed him." Elijah set out, and came upon Elisha, son of Shaphat, as he was plowing with twelve yoke of oxen; he was following the twelfth. Elijah went over to him and threw his cloak over him. Elisha left the oxen, ran after Elijah, and said, "Please, let me kiss my father and mother good-bye, and I will follow you." "Go back!" Elijah answered. "Have I done anything to you?" Elisha left him and, taking the yoke of oxen, slaughtered them; he used the plowing equipment for fuel to boil their flesh, and gave it to his people to eat. Then he left and followed Elijah as his attendant.

Responsorial Psalm: Psalms 16:1-2, 5, 7-8, 9-10, 11

Second Reading: Galatians 5:1, 13-18

For freedom Christ set us free; so stand firm and do not submit again to the yoke of slavery.n For you were called for freedom, brothers. But do not use this freedom as an opportunity for the flesh; rather, serve one another through love. For the whole law is fulfilled in one statement, namely, "You shall love your neighbor as yourself." But if you go on biting and devouring one another, beware that you are not consumed by one another. I say, then: live by the Spirit and you will certainly not gratify the desire of the flesh. For the flesh has desires against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh; these are opposed to each other, so that you may not do what you want. But if you are guided by the Spirit, you are not under the law.

Gospel: Luke 9:51-62

When the days for his being taken up were fulfilled, he resolutely determined to journey to Jerusalem, and he sent messengers ahead of him. On the way they entered a Samaritan village to prepare for his reception there, but they would not welcome him because the destination of his journey was Jerusalem. When the disciples James and John saw this they asked, "Lord, do you want us to call down fire from heaven to consume them?" Jesus turned and rebuked them, and they journeyed to another village.

As they were proceeding on their journey someone said to him, "I will follow you wherever you go." Jesus answered him, "Foxes have dens and birds of the sky have nests, but the Son of Man has nowhere to rest his head." And to another he said, "Follow me." But he replied, "(Lord,) let me go first and bury my father. But he answered him, "Let the dead bury their dead.  But you, go and proclaim the kingdom of God." And another said, "I will follow you, Lord, but first let me say farewell to my family at home." (To him) Jesus said, "No one who sets a hand to the plow and looks to what was left behind is fit for the kingdom of God."

Reflection
By Fidji Rivera-Sarmiento

For this last Sunday, lets lighten up a little bit. The whole month of June with St. Luke the evangelist has been really serious :)

Growing up and reading and hearing this Gospel made me cringe a lot. I mean, how can the Lord Jesus be so harsh? The guy just wanted to bid goodbye to his family, and the other one merely wanted to bury the dead (which is actually part of the seven Corporal Works of Mercy, by the way; so I was confused). Then maturity dawned, and I realized Jesus was talking about all the distractions that derail us along the road to heaven. Let me itemize mine; these are the trivial ones:

a. The laundry. Let me tell you. With or without helpers, I do our laundry. I want our clothes real clean and smelling good. (Who doesn’t?) I hate the smell of “lumlom” and that puts me in such a bad mood. I use two different brands of fabric conditioner, one for rainy days, the other for sunny weather. And since I have three kiddies, the youngest on toilet training, you can assume that yes, I have a Mt. Apo over the weekends. So I try my best to divide them into three days over the week, but still there will be laundry on a Sunday. That sometimes becomes my excuse to stay at home the whooooole day and not go to Mass. Yes I feel sorry as I type this, and sure I have done this not once, not twice, but quite a few times. I’d convince myself that the Lord will understand since doing the laundry is for my family anyway. But truth is, I am guilty of just being lazy and being such a control freak, when I know I can delegate the job. Or maybe I could’ve managed my time more appropriately. See, instead of blocking off my Sundays for the Holy Mass and other family gatherings, I’d rather do the laundry. What a distraction. What a stumbling block.

b. Senseless anxiety. I tend to worry a lot. I predict endings a lot. I can brag that I am 80-90% correct anyway because I think this is a gift. Plus my degree in psychology has taught me ways to predict a person’s next behavior especially if it follows a pattern. But to my detriment, I am quick to jump to conclusions. I prevent situations from unfolding naturally. This has halted me many times to trust God fully. I turn into a brat, whining and complaining to God why such and such had to happen, or why does it have to be me. I have read that worrying is like sitting on a rocking chair, or cycling on a stationary bike. It wears you down, but it takes you nowhere. And yes, that is the exact feeling I get when I am anxious – a long walk in empty road taking me nowhere. Another distraction instead of looking up to my big God who’s got a big hand with complete trust.

c. My digital gadgets and social media. I don’t have a lot like some would have. We have already given up the iPad as part of our kids’ digital diet. So I am left with the iPhone, the laptop, and alright, the TV qualifies. I am active in the social media too. There’s Facebook of course, then there’s Instagram, then Twitter. I also blog my nanay adventures and then chat with friends online. I also shop online. And yes let me tell you how it eats up your “free time.” You’ll think it’s free time till your child screams at your face or pulls your arm towards dislocation. It’s not free time when your prayer hour has been consumed as well. It is never free time because simply you’re a mom, and free time is not included in the package. I am sure you’ve felt drained after an hour of mindless surfing. You may have seen a dress and now you want it. You’ve read a status and you know who it is about. You may have also been building a following over your Instagram and then you become upset because no one likes a photo. These and a lot more are merely disruptions to what your day should have been. Productivity is slowed down, the essentials forgotten. Excessive digital distraction is not only physically unhealthy, but a way to escape.

I have some more really personal ones, but these are the top 3 distractions I have. These are what the Lord was referring to when He said, “No one who puts his hand to the plow and looks back is fit for the kingdom of God." I am not ashamed to admit these things, because I know Jesus is with me and I ask Him to curb my senseless preoccupations. So get some quality check-up. What’s on your list? What has been derailing you towards holiness? What stops you from being the person the Lord wills you to become?

Prayer

Lord, I have been distracted many times over. Help me to always focus on the prize. That when the time comes that You will judge my earthly life, You’d say, “My daughter, you’ve truly followed Me and carried your cross.” Teach me to persevere more, to be patient in pruning my hedonistic ways. Always pull me back into the path to holiness each time I stumble, so I too, may inspire others to keep their focus on You. Thank you. You never fail to wake me up from worldly daydreaming. Amen.


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