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Monday, 29 February 2016

The Forgiving Father

 

Fourth Sunday of Lent
06 March 2016


First reading                                                                             Joshua 5:9-12

The Lord said to Joshua, ‘Today I have taken the shame of Egypt away from you.’
  The Israelites pitched their camp at Gilgal and kept the Passover there on the fourteenth day of the month, at evening in the plain of Jericho. On the morrow of the Passover they tasted the produce of that country, unleavened bread and roasted ears of corn, that same day. From that time, from their first eating of the produce of that country, the manna stopped falling. And having manna no longer, the Israelites fed from that year onwards on what the land of Canaan yielded.
 
Psalm                                                                            Psalm 33:2-7

             
Second reading                                                         2 Corinthians 5:17-21

For anyone who is in Christ, there is a new creation; the old creation has gone, and now the new one is here. It is all God’s work. It was God who reconciled us to himself through Christ and gave us the work of handing on this reconciliation. In other words, God in Christ was reconciling the world to himself, not holding men’s faults against them, and he has entrusted to us the news that they are reconciled. So we are ambassadors for Christ; it is as though God were appealing through us, and the appeal that we make in Christ’s name is: be reconciled to God. For our sake God made the sinless one into sin, so that in him we might become the goodness of God.
 
Gospel                                                                       Luke 13:1-9

The tax collectors and the sinners were all seeking the company of Jesus to hear what he had to say, and the Pharisees and the scribes complained. ‘This man’ they said ‘welcomes sinners and eats with them.’ So he spoke this parable to them:
  ‘A man had two sons. The younger said to his father, “Father, let me have the share of the estate that would come to me.” So the father divided the property between them. A few days later, the younger son got together everything he had and left for a distant country where he squandered his money on a life of debauchery.
  ‘When he had spent it all, that country experienced a severe famine, and now he began to feel the pinch, so he hired himself out to one of the local inhabitants who put him on his farm to feed the pigs. And he would willingly have filled his belly with the husks the pigs were eating but no one offered him anything. Then he came to his senses and said, “How many of my father’s paid servants have more food than they want, and here am I dying of hunger! I will leave this place and go to my father and say: Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you; I no longer deserve to be called your son; treat me as one of your paid servants.” So he left the place and went back to his father.
  ‘While he was still a long way off, his father saw him and was moved with pity. He ran to the boy, clasped him in his arms and kissed him tenderly. Then his son said, “Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you. I no longer deserve to be called your son.” But the father said to his servants, “Quick! Bring out the best robe and put it on him; put a ring on his finger and sandals on his feet. Bring the calf we have been fattening, and kill it; we are going to have a feast, a celebration, because this son of mine was dead and has come back to life; he was lost and is found.” And they began to celebrate.
  ‘Now the elder son was out in the fields, and on his way back, as he drew near the house, he could hear music and dancing. Calling one of the servants he asked what it was all about. “Your brother has come” replied the servant “and your father has killed the calf we had fattened because he has got him back safe and sound.” He was angry then and refused to go in, and his father came out to plead with him; but he answered his father, “Look, all these years I have slaved for you and never once disobeyed your orders, yet you never offered me so much as a kid for me to celebrate with my friends. But, for this son of yours, when he comes back after swallowing up your property – he and his women – you kill the calf we had been fattening.”
  ‘The father said, “My son, you are with me always and all I have is yours. But it was only right we should celebrate and rejoice, because your brother here was dead and has come to life; he was lost and is found.”’

Reflection
By Grace B. Madriñan

The parable today is more popularly known as “The Prodigal Son”.  I need not elaborate further what this is all about as I believe you have read and heard of this many times over.
      
To tell you honestly, there are actually times when I am having a hard time accepting how the prodigal son can easily move back to the comfortable life after squandering half of his Father’s wealth. I cannot blame the “responsible son” for reacting the same way.  If I were him, I could have acted the same way, maybe even gave him cold shoulders for a few weeks just to make him suffer a bit more.
     
Recalling one of the talks at the Feast (Catholic prayer gathering of the Light of Jesus family), our preacher shared that most Christians (including Catholic Christians), who are in the ministry or community, are like the “responsible son”.   We tend to be self-righteous to the point that we feel that we should be more privileged or more blessed because we have been good to our service. Even if we admit or not, we tend to get awry and even doubtful when a rebel returns home.
     
Over the years, I realized that the parable is neither about the prodigal son nor the better son. It is about the forgiving Father. The love and mercy of a Father is something that we cannot fully define. The only truth that we know is that no amount of sin is greater than the love of a Father. This is how our God is -- ever loving, ever forgiving. His love overwhelms our soul. His love cleanses and leads us to conversion. Sooner enough, His love magnifies our lives.
    
Who am I, then, to deny such love?
 
Prayer
 
Ever loving Father, we thank and glorify You for Your stubborn love for us. Never let us go from Your hold, and let Your love and generosity rub on us so that we can do the same for our returning brothers. In Jesus’ Name we pray. Amen.

Thursday, 26 March 2015

Forgiving is Loving


Viernes de Dolores
27 March 2015


Gospel             Luke 15:11-32
Jesus continued: “There was a man who had two sons. The younger one said to his father, ‘Father, give me my share of the estate.’ So he divided his property between them.
“Not long after that, the younger son got together all he had, set off for a distant country and there squandered his wealth in wild living. After he had spent everything, there was a severe famine in that whole country, and he began to be in need. So he went and hired himself out to a citizen of that country, who sent him to his fields to feed pigs. He longed to fill his stomach with the pods that the pigs were eating, but no one gave him anything.
“When he came to his senses, he said, ‘How many of my father’s hired servants have food to spare, and here I am starving to death! I will set out and go back to my father and say to him: Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son; make me like one of your hired servants.’ So he got up and went to his father.
“But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and was filled with compassion for him; he ran to his son, threw his arms around him and kissed him.
“The son said to him, ‘Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you.I am no longer worthy to be called your son.’
“But the father said to his servants, ‘Quick! Bring the best robe and put it on him. Put a ring on his finger and sandals on his feet. Bring the fattened calf and kill it. Let’s have a feast and celebrate. For this son of mine was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found.’ So they began to celebrate.
“Meanwhile, the older son was in the field. When he came near the house, he heard music and dancing. So he called one of the servants and asked him what was going on. ‘Your brother has come,’ he replied, ‘and your father has killed the fattened calf because he has him back safe and sound.’
“The older brother became angry and refused to go in. So his father went out and pleaded with him. But he answered his father, ‘Look! All these years I’ve been slaving for you and never disobeyed your orders. Yet you never gave me even a young goat so I could celebrate with my friends. But when this son of yours who has squandered your property with prostitutes comes home, you kill the fattened calf for him!’
“‘My son,’ the father said, ‘you are always with me, and everything I have is yours. But we had to celebrate and be glad, because this brother of yours was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found.’”

Reflection
By Fidji Rivera-Sarmiento

“…Yet you never gave me even a young goat to feast on with my friends.”’

The naïve me used to think, ang daya (How unfair). Even in high school, each time this was discussed in the classroom or retreats, in my mind, I would mutter, ang daya-daya nung tatay (That father is very unfair). Of course, this is also me when I see good things happen to bad people.

Now I realized that this is the very core of that dangerous sense of entitlement, the “I-Deserve-This” thinking. It starts with jealousy or envy, then it escalates to a pity party. Entitlement borders on narcissism, and is way different than self-worth. Should the good son been genuine in being upright, then he should not feel in any way jealous of the prodigal son’s celebration. He must also not expect any reward at all from his compassionate father.

In the past, this parable centered on the prodigal son. Being prodigal means to spend resources, i.e. money, recklessly. I wonder why in Filipino this story usually translates to alibughang anak, when alibugha means taksil, more appropriately used on an unfaithful partner. Gladly, this parable eventually evolved to focus on the compassionate and forgiving father.

We can learn many things from this loving dad. How well do we forgive those who have wronged us? How many times have we given up on those who betrayed us? How do we deal with family members who went the wrong way?

Forgiving is loving. And when we forgive, we don’t do it for the other person. We do it to free ourselves.

So ponder on.

Who are you in this story? The prodigal son? The jealous brother? Or the brokenhearted father?

Prayer
Dear Jesus, more than anything today, we ask for Your Holy Spirit to help us manage our emotions. We believe that it is only with You that we can react to situations appropriately. You have shown us how it is to be a human, and we would want to follow You. Help us. Teach us. Fine-tune our thoughts, so we can proclaim Your kingdom through our ways. Amen.

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