Saturday, 14 February 2026
Say what you mean
Saturday, 22 October 2022
Man in the Mirror
Thirtieth Sunday in Ordinary Time
23 October 2022
Thursday, 15 September 2022
May Our Talents Glorify God
Twenty-fifth Sunday in Ordinary Time
18 September 2022
One time, before
an exam, I made a speech before my students, “We hate cheaters, don’t we?
Cheaters in business. Cheaters in the government. But here you are, helping
each other planning a scheme on how to cheat in small things such as these
exams. We hate cheaters in relationships, but here you are young boyfriends and
girlfriends helping each other cheat in your quizzes.” Then I even made a false
claim, ”Well, studies say that cheaters in class becomes cheaters in
relationships.” I think I heard someone say “That’s why we don’t believe in
studies.” Hahaha.
What really
amazes me is the fact that those who cheat, whether in class or in any other
aspect of life, can spend so much energy in planning and executing their shrewd
deed. Why not use this energy in doing the right things? Like instead on
planning where to write the answers inside the classroom or what signals to use
for the answers, why not use the energy to study? Instead of planning a scheme
on how to cheat in business, why not plan on how to please the customers to
have a loyal customer base? Or plan on how to improve the product.
Today in the Gospel, Jesus praised the shrewd steward in the parable. I am sure the steward was not commended for his cheating but rather for his strategic abilities. If only he could use this ability for good. Same is true with us. God has blessed us with wonderful talents. If only we could use these talents and our energy in doing God’s works on earth. God will truly be glorified.
We thank you Father for our talents. May we use these talents to do Your works. May these talents bear fruit that will give back the glory to You. Amen.
Friday, 16 September 2016
Be Honest
Days after days, I read the passage before I sleep and a voice in my head would just say, “That’s it? Nothing more meaningful to add?” then I would lay myself to sleep. In the middle of work or even after work I would read other people’s reflection about the Parable of the Unjust Steward, hoping it would trigger something in me which I can own as my reflection in the Gospel.
The context of the Unjust Steward is told as a series or continuation of the parables in the previous Sundays. It is a response to the pharisees and scribes complaining that Jesus is eating with the sinners. Understanding that this parable is meant to be heard by the “righteous” of God’s laws in Jesus’ time is very important in order to understand Jesus’ meaning behind this parable.
In verse 8, Jesus says, "For the people of this world are more shrewd in dealing with their own kind than are the people of the light." He isn't commending the dishonesty to us rather he’s pointing out the cleverness of the manager. The manager knows he's getting fired and, of course, he won't be taking any of his master's wealth with him. So what does he do? He uses that money in the short time he has left to win friends who will help him after he is fired. Learning from the manager’s cleverness, not to imitate his actions but to learn from it nonetheless, I realized that the only way I can get lasting value out of our worldly wealth is to give it away. That spending money on other people is actually the best investment I can possibly make with it.
More so, it reminded me of the value of honesty and of trust. See, something in me has already been triggered. I have strong trust issues, whenever dishonesty sets in my relationships, immediately I would have a crisis. I always believe that if you cannot be honest in small matters, more so, you cannot be honest in big and critical ones.
To be honest with ourselves, to others, and to God should be our way of life. To be honest is to be true to oneself, of one’s giftedness and also of one’s limitations. To be honest is accepting who you are and who you are not. It is a choice to make. There is always freedom to choose and decide. Consent is given to own and not regret in the future because we chose what we think and feel best for others and in obedience to God.
A related saying from Jim Elliot’s quote to this parable of the dishonest manager is, "Wise is the one who gives to others that which he can never keep, in order to gain that which he can never lose."
Prayer
Almighty and loving Father, help us to be honest and true to ourselves, to others and to You. When tempted and tested, may we choose to be faithful to You most especially when it feels hard. May we become responsible stewards of what You have entrusted in us. We surrender to You our nation, our families and communities especially in times where we are asked to be honest and sincere. This we ask through Christ our Lord, and the Holy Spirit, one God, forever and ever. Amen.




