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Saturday, 14 February 2026

Say what you mean


Sixth Sunday in Ordinary Time 

15 February 2026

 
First Reading: Sirach 15:15-20
Responsorial Psalm: Psalm 119:1-2, 4-5, 17-18
Second Reading: 1 Corinthians 2:6-10
Gospel: Matthew 5:17-37
 
Reflection
By: Grace B. MadriƱan
 
Today’s Gospel is quite a long one and there are a lot of good points for which we can base our reflection on. 

But this one caught my attention.

“Let your 'Yes' mean 'Yes,' and your 'No' mean 'No.' Anything more is from the evil one." - Matthew 5:37

Today’s Gospel is a reiteration of some of the ten commandments and this verse came along in the end. The verse reminds me of “white lies”, “gray areas”, or “half truths”. How many of us are playing with these excuses once in a while? 

How many of us say the food tastes great (when it is totally not) when asked by a loved one who just learned a new recipe? How many wives are saying they are fine when asked by their husbands how they were? How many of us answer “Yes” when our minds clearly say “No”.

Why can’t we tell the truth? Do we fear disappointing others? Do we fear judgement or rejection? Do we tell white lies to gain acceptance or affection? Or do we just avoid conflict and further explanations. 

Whatever our reasons, our seemingly harmless white lies will send us to the Gehenna as per today’s Gospel. Regardless of the circumstance of the white lies, it is still not telling the truth. Half truths are also half lies. And any lie is a sin. No excuses.

Today’s Gospel tells us to be mindful to “say what we mean and mean what we say” always. After all, "The truth shall set us free" (John 8:32), the recipient of our words shall be free from fallacy while we shall be from the bondage of sin.

Prayer

Dear Father, forgive our habitual sins of white lies or half truths. Teach us to always be mindful of our thoughts and words. May Your truth always remain. Amen. 

Saturday, 22 October 2022

Man in the Mirror

   

  Thirtieth Sunday in Ordinary Time

23 October 2022 

 
First Reading: Sir 35:12-14, 16-18
Responsorial Psalm: Ps 34:2-3, 17-18, 19, 23
Second Reading: 2 Tm 4:6-8, 16-18
Gospel: Lk 18:9-14
 
Reflection
By: Theresa Ballo-Manio
 
When you get up in the morning and see yourself in a mirror, what do you see? That first look in the mirror says most of the truth about us and how we feel. After some time, when we go about our own affairs, be it work or studies, we somehow project a different version of ourselves to others. This may not happen at all which is very ideal. At times we are called to do this and there may be times we live a life differently from who we truly are and how we truly feel. This is hard and really sad because living a life made of lies, arrogance, and self righteousness will eat us alive. It will take out the very human in us, our frailty, our need to depend on God alone. 

This Sunday’s Gospel is related to last week’s parable of Jesus about praying. It is an invitation for us to be truly real in front of God whenever we pray. The tax collector in today’s Gospel presents himself to God exactly as he is, a sinner and someone who falls short of God’s graces to do good all the time. He did not pretend to be someone he is not. Contrary to the Pharisee, who presented a false picture of himself to God, telling all his accomplishments, good works, and exaggerating his virtues up to the point of condemning the tax collector who is also praying beside him. 

When we see ourselves better than our neighbors because of the things that we do (doing outreach programs, attending Church activities, having good jobs)  and the things that we do not do (committing crimes) it somehow gives us a good feeling, perhaps because we see ourselves a bit better than those who fail where we succeed. The parable reminds us not to be prisoners of our own small righteousness and not to be blatantly judgemental to others. We are all sinners and all beloved children of a merciful Father. The Gospel invites us to acknowledge our true self and lay down all our cards to God. We will never be perfect, but we can always be honest. 

God’s unconditional love for us gives us the courage we need to present ourselves to him as we truly are. Yes, it may give us feelings of shame yet God’s grace fills us with another chance to be better, to do better, and see people in His eyes. In the beginning of the Eucharist, we are called to mind all our sins, to continue an honest relationship and meeting of God. In my head, God would look down on us from heaven and say in response, “I know everything about you, but now I am happy that you know your shortcomings too! Now, we can continue to have an honest and open relationship.”

Prayer

Dear God, be merciful to a sinner like me. I feel Your love not because I am good but because You are. Whenever I come towards You or be honest to You, things get lighter. May we always set Your loving kindness as our inspiration to see ourselves better and be kinder to others as well. Amen. 


Thursday, 15 September 2022

May Our Talents Glorify God

   

  Twenty-fifth Sunday in Ordinary Time

18 September 2022 

 
First Reading: Am 8:4-7
Responsorial Psalm: Ps 113:1-2, 4-6, 7-8
Second Reading: 1 Tm 2:1-8
Gospel: Lk 16:1-13
 
Reflection
By: Gharri Tulabut
 
It really amazes me how students can come up with different tactics on how to cheat during an examination. In my personal experience with my students, small things such as making noise to signal whether the answer is A, B, C, or D is a common thing.  Some would even make their own alphabet and write kodigos right there on the board before my very eyes. Oh, I can only wonder what other techniques they come up with especially recently that they take quizzes online. Have you seen the movie Bad Genius? Students in that movie are for me the Mafia or drug lords of cheating.

One time, before an exam, I made a speech before my students, “We hate cheaters, don’t we? Cheaters in business. Cheaters in the government. But here you are, helping each other planning a scheme on how to cheat in small things such as these exams. We hate cheaters in relationships, but here you are young boyfriends and girlfriends helping each other cheat in your quizzes.” Then I even made a false claim, ”Well, studies say that cheaters in class becomes cheaters in relationships.” I think I heard someone say “That’s why we don’t believe in studies.” Hahaha.

What really amazes me is the fact that those who cheat, whether in class or in any other aspect of life, can spend so much energy in planning and executing their shrewd deed. Why not use this energy in doing the right things? Like instead on planning where to write the answers inside the classroom or what signals to use for the answers, why not use the energy to study? Instead of planning a scheme on how to cheat in business, why not plan on how to please the customers to have a loyal customer base? Or plan on how to improve the product.

Today in the Gospel, Jesus praised the shrewd steward in the parable. I am sure the steward was not commended for his cheating but rather for his strategic abilities. If only he could use this ability for good. Same is true with us. God has blessed us with wonderful talents. If only we could use these talents and our energy in doing God’s works on earth. God will truly be glorified.


Prayer

We thank you Father for our talents. May we use these talents to do Your works. May these talents bear fruit that will give back the glory to You. Amen.



Friday, 16 September 2016

Be Honest

       Twenty-Fifth Sunday of 
              Ordinary Time
           September 18, 2016
First Reading:  Amos 8:4-7

Listen to this, you who crush the needy and reduce the oppressed to nothing, you who say, 'When will New Moon be over so that we can sell our corn, and Sabbath, so that we can market our wheat? Then, we can make the bushel-measure smaller and the shekel-weight bigger, by fraudulently tampering with the scales.

We can buy up the weak for silver and the poor for a pair of sandals, and even get a price for the sweepings of the wheat.' Yahweh has sworn by the pride of Jacob, 'Never will I forget anything they have done.'

Responsorial Psalm: Psalms 113:1-2, 4-6, 7-8

Second Reading: 1 Timothy 1:12-17

I urge then, first of all that petitions, prayers, intercessions and thanksgiving should be offered for everyone, for kings and others in authority, so that we may be able to live peaceful and quiet lives with all devotion and propriety. To do this is right, and acceptable to God our Saviour:

he wants everyone to be saved and reach full knowledge of the truth. For there is only one God, and there is only one mediator between God and humanity, himself a human being, Christ Jesus,
who offered himself as a ransom for all. This was the witness given at the appointed time, of which I was appointed herald and apostle and -- I am telling the truth and no lie -- a teacher of the gentiles in faith and truth.  In every place, then, I want the men to lift their hands up reverently in prayer, with no anger or argument.

Gospel:  Luke 16:1-13

He also said to his disciples, 'There was a rich man and he had a steward who was denounced to him for being wasteful with his property. He called for the man and said, "What is this I hear about you? Draw me up an account of your stewardship because you are not to be my steward any longer." Then the steward said to himself, "Now that my master is taking the stewardship from me, what am I to do? Dig? I am not strong enough. Go begging? I should be too ashamed.

Ah, I know what I will do to make sure that when I am dismissed from office there will be some to welcome me into their homes."  'Then he called his master's debtors one by one. To the first he said, "How much do you owe my master?"  "One hundred measures of oil," he said. The steward said, "Here, take your bond; sit down and quickly write fifty." To another he said, "And you, sir, how much do you owe?" "One hundred measures of wheat," he said. The steward said, "Here, take your bond and write eighty."

 'The master praised the dishonest steward for his astuteness. For the children of this world are more astute in dealing with their own kind than are the children of light.' 'And so I tell you this: use money, tainted as it is, to win you friends, and thus make sure that when it fails you, they will welcome you into eternal dwellings. Anyone who is trustworthy in little things is trustworthy in great; anyone who is dishonest in little things is dishonest in great.


 If then you are not trustworthy with money, that tainted thing, who will trust you with genuine riches? And if you are not trustworthy with what is not yours, who will give you what is your very own? 'No servant can be the slave of two masters: he will either hate the first and love the second, or be attached to the first and despise the second. You cannot be the slave both of God and of money.'

Reflection
By Theresa Ballo

Honestly speaking, the readings this Sunday are quite a challenge for me. First, there are words in it especially in the Gospel which I found ironic and hypocritical. Second, I think I have a unique view of money or wealth for that matter. Third, all I can think of while reflecting in the readings was indeed, relationships are far more important than money and accumulating wealth. So, if this is the case, my Sunday reflection ends here.

Days after days, I read the passage before I sleep and a voice in my head would just say, “That’s it? Nothing more meaningful to add?” then I would lay myself to sleep. In the middle of work or even after work I would read other people’s reflection about the Parable of the Unjust Steward, hoping it would trigger something in me which I can own as my reflection in the Gospel.

The context of the Unjust Steward is told as a series or continuation of the parables in the previous Sundays. It is a response to the pharisees and scribes complaining that Jesus is eating with the sinners. Understanding that this parable is meant to be heard by the “righteous” of God’s laws in Jesus’ time is very important in order to understand Jesus’ meaning behind this parable.

In verse 8, Jesus says, "For the people of this world are more shrewd in dealing with their own kind than are the people of the light." He isn't commending the dishonesty to us rather he’s pointing out the cleverness of the manager. The manager knows he's getting fired and, of course, he won't be taking any of his master's wealth with him. So what does he do? He uses that money in the short time he has left to win friends who will help him after he is fired. Learning from the manager’s cleverness, not to imitate his actions but to learn from it nonetheless, I realized that the only way I can get lasting value out of our worldly wealth is to give it away. That spending money on other people is actually the best investment I can possibly make with it.

More so, it reminded me of the value of honesty and of trust. See, something in me has already been triggered. I have strong trust issues, whenever dishonesty sets in my relationships, immediately I would have a crisis. I always believe that if you cannot be honest in small matters, more so, you cannot be honest in big and critical ones.

To be honest with ourselves, to others, and to God should be our way of life. To be honest is to be true to oneself, of one’s giftedness and also of one’s limitations. To be honest is accepting who you are and who you are not. It is a choice to make. There is always freedom to choose and decide. Consent is given to own and not regret in the future because we chose what we think and feel best for others and in obedience to God.

A related saying from Jim Elliot’s quote to this parable of the dishonest manager is, "Wise is the one who gives to others that which he can never keep, in order to gain that which he can never lose."


Prayer

Almighty and loving Father, help us to be honest and true to ourselves, to others and to You.  When tempted and tested, may we choose to be faithful to You most especially when it feels hard. May we become responsible stewards of what You have entrusted in us. We surrender to You our nation, our families and communities especially in times where we are asked to be honest and sincere. This we ask through Christ our Lord, and the Holy Spirit, one God, forever and ever. Amen.

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